Hi there! Wishing you a very happy christmas too! Thank you so much for your help, your ideas really managed to open my eyes and to see you from another perspective!!i never used to think of it that way. I have learned a lot about myself too, and i now know how to speak to him whilst keeping in control of the situation at the same time. My ex and i had a long distance relationship and he is flying over to see me here in England to try and sort all this mess out!

Regards and many thanks

Nadia

I have received your guide entitled The Magic of Making Up and was pleasantly surprised with the quality of the advice contained therein…[removed due to sensitive nature]

Jacquelynn

Just wanted to thank you for all your help! Your book is amazing and got my man and I back together within a few weeks of reading it. Now to clarify, it had already been some time since we had even spoken to each other, and I was really starting to miss him. I read your instructions very carefully and fallowed them to the tee, and it worked! … I could not have done it without you! We are now blissfully celebrating are Birthdays together, and are even planning a beach getaway just us two.

Thank you sooooo much!!!

Lena

Well it tool some time but i got my girl back. she pretty [much] got down on her hands and knees coming back to me thanks buddy.

Rob

Just wanted to let you know your advice is so rational and so sound… At such a horrible and tough time it is reassuring to read the correct way to handle yourself and go about respecting someone’s wishes (a breakup) but at the same time try to get them back. A lot of people don’t realize how simple and easy it is, patience is a virtue and because of you … I am now dating the love of my life again, we were together for 4 years, split for only 2 1/2 months and are now back together. I did what you… told me was the ONLY option and it worked. If it is true love and meant to be, your advice is impossible not to work. Thanks for the guidance. You’re a good man!

CC

Emails and experience from many people with their results.

T.W. Jackson explains the first steps involved in stopping a breakup. Many topics covered including professing undying love, text-message terrorism and drunk dialing!

Are you not sure what went wrong?  Are you frustrated that you’ve invested months or even years of your life, only to have to keep starting over?  Does he or she need “space” or are they becoming distant?

In matters like this, there many factors to consider.  The three most important things to remember when approaching this situation are:

• You can not control he or she’s actions. (agree with the breakup)
• You can control YOUR own behavior.
• Time is of the essence.

The approach of LoveRestore.com is to focus on your own behavior to stack the odds in your favor.  If the situation is handled correctly, chances are he or she will come running back!

Do you have these symptoms?

• Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
• Loss of appetite
• Binge eating for comfort
• Calling your ex several times a day
• Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
• Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
• Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
• Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
• Feeling massively depressed
• Feeling urges to spy on them
• Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
• Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them

…and when you do get in touch with your ex, it usually turns ugly because you don’t have a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? Panic and defensiveness sets in and then come the arguments.

Are you making these mistakes with your ex?

• Trying to convince them we are the love of their life
• Apologizing profusely for everything
• Promising to change for good “this time”
• Trying to convince them that it wasn’t really our fault
• Begging them to take you back

…and of course with every word you utter, regardless of your intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.

Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…

But that’s just the start… Once you’ve got them back you want to prevent this from happening again.  We cover that too!